5 Tips to Turn Your Trauma into Triumph

Turn Your Trauma into Triumph blog post

Today, I’m sharing 5 tips to turn your trauma into triumph because I just read something that hit me deeply, and I bet it’ll resonate with you, too. Dr. Peter A. Levine, author of Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma said,

“Trauma is perhaps the most avoided, ignored, belittled, denied, misunderstood, and untreated cause of human suffering.”

Wow, right?

It hit me hard because how many of us women entrepreneurs find ourselves fighting a battle against a force within ourselves when chasing our goals and dreams? It’s like Dr. Levine is speaking directly to why there are parts of us that resist personal growth, prosperity, and success. Even though we say we want it so badly.

Let’s get real for a sec. The journey of an entrepreneur? It’s not just about the hustle, the sparkle, the ups and downs of business. It’s also about facing our inner demons, the ones that whisper, “you can’t” when we so fiercely want to believe “we can.”

And sometimes, those demons? They’re rooted in trauma.

Trauma is sneaky that way. It hides in the shadows and can trip us up when we least expect it. But almost always certainly when we set new goals or want to expand in some area of our lives.

But here’s the deal: I’m all about transforming these shadow parts of ourselves into our power for the glory of God. Because I believe it’s our shadow parts that hold the key to our destiny calling.

Our shadow parts represent the tough things we’ve been through. They represent the mountains of adversity we’ve had to climb so we could stand here now and say, “I AM HERE. I MADE IT. I OVERCAME.” Hallelujah!

Ladies, we didn’t come this far only to come this far. Let’s kick those trauma-induced fears to the curb and step into our power. Because with God, we are bigger than our fears and bigger than our trauma histories.

Here are five heart-to-heart tips I can swear by as I navigate my own journey of transforming my trauma into power:

Tip 1 – Own Your Trauma Story

First up, we need to acknowledge our trauma. It’s not about giving it a front-row seat in our lives, but rather saying, “Yeah, this happened to me. It hurt like hell. But it’s not holding me down.” Facing our trauma is tough, I know, but it’s the first step to reclaiming our power as destiny women.

Tip 2 – Create Your Trauma Healing Circle

Dealing with our trauma is no cake walk. I don’t recommend you do it alone. You need a loving support system to guide you through the maze. A therapist, counselor, pastor, or coach, someone who gets it. Someome who is trauma-informed. There’s strength in seeking help, trust me. It’s like having a personal trainer for your soul.

Tip 3 – Your Tribe is Your Vibe

Being a lone wolf will keep you stuck. Trauma patterns thrive in isolation. But we thrive in communities that feel safe and nurturing. Find your people—the ones who cheer for you, cry with you, and encourage you to be your best self. Whether it’s other women entrepreneurs or just friends who get you, community is everything. Healing happens in community.

Tip 4 – Self-Love is Your Superpower

Be fierce in your intention to love yourself like your life depends on it. Give yourself the love you craved as a child but didn’t receive. Give yourself compassion. As Dr. Kristen Neff, author of Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself puts it,

“Remember that if you really want to motivate yourself, love is more powerful than fear.”

Being a woman entrepreneur is a wild ride, and it’s okay to not be perfect. It’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to be your raw, beautiful, messy self. Celebrate who you are. Remember you’re doing amazing things, dear heart.

Tip 5 – Share Your Light

Your journey, your perspective, your insights—they’re gold. By sharing your story, you’re not just healing yourself, you’re giving others permission to heal, too. That’s powerful, my friend. Your vulnerability is your strength.

Journal prompt to help you go deeper:

Think about something you’re struggling with in your business or personal life. Could this struggle be tied to past trauma?

How can this awareness help you take one baby step forward considering the five tips I shared above?

This isn’t just about reflection; it’s about a deep conversation—between you and you. It’s recognizing your resilience and embracing your journey, It’s about knowing you’re not defined by your past and you’re not alone on your healing journey.

Here’s to shining bright, not in spite of your trauma, but because of it.

You’ve got this, my dear, and I’m here cheering you on every step of the way.


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